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Hey guys, letβs gist π! Compliments of the season lovers π.
As usual I have a question for you and it for ladies. Ladies letβs meet at the comment section, guys get in here observe and add your honest opinions too πβ€π
Ladies, Your husband and your father are arguing. Your husband says get in the car, your father says sit-down. Whatβs your next move?
Heheπ€₯π€¦, hmmm. Well, I put my parents in a very high place and my husband is in a high place too thatβs why I expect him to respect my dad enough not to get into any argument with him.
So, I will just sleep π ππ
Iβve got different reactions from my beautiful ladies π
Anny
βI will go inside and sleep! Thatβs it dear. Ode o shelomo niyon. Make I give them chance to have enough of what dey really wants.Emi omo olaπi like season filmπ€·π»βββ
Eshah
βLol, both of them are not serious
Me I will walk out of the two of them niβ
Abitop
βQuickly dial a number and walk away for few minutes. By the time I get back, they should have resolved their argument.β
Adesewa
βHaaa! O lewu ooo. All the same I will respect my fatherβs opinion.β
Adelola
βDaddy Iβm now a wifey o
Iβll go on my own following no one thouβ
Rofiat
βAs for me, I will sit down ni o;
because my father is my father for life, but husband can change at anytimeβ
Idowu
β Iβll go to the available room and sleep π. But then, Iβd obey my father o. If my husband doesnβt have the courtesy to respect or address him politely, I shouldnβt respect him either. Also, under no circumstance should my husband give me orders. He must always request, otherwise itβs disrespectβ
Sharon
βI should follow my husband but then, I wont want to disrespect my father in front of him and 6i will also not want my husband to feel like I disrespect him . so i I should follow my husband but then, i wont want to disrespect my father in front of him and i will also not want my husband to feel like i disrespect him . so i will rather not listen to any of them. I wont stay or sit and also i wont get into any fucking car. Iwill rather not listen to any of them. I wont stay or sit and also I wont get into any fucking car.
Bcus once i follow his order, lobatan, thats a slot for him to start disrespecting my father cus some guys can be unpredictable. And its wont go well betwn us.β
Adebimpe
βHmmmmβ¦ Let talk on a plain groundβ¦ It is generally known that three drivers cannot occupy the seat meant for a driver and two goats canβt stay and last forever , one will have to be a sheep
See, in life one has to behave like a fool attimes not because you are a fool actually but for peace to reign. Trust me even if u want to prove ur wise,ur wiseness might not help during war and prevention they sayis better than than cure.
As a matter of fact,The Head(hubby) will always be the head and The source(father ) will always remain the sourceβ¦
If the hubby hasnβt forgotten that he is equally a son to his wifeβs dad, then I think an iota of respect is needed but since the situation turn to phase two, wisdom is profitable and it the principal thing.
The wife shud humbly go to calm her dad and then go to her husband to have a few mins talk with him to calm him down also or better still she should walk away and leave the scene for the two.β
Shugar
βIt depends on the situation on ground If it abuse or assault I wonβt follow my husband but if it something else I would follow my husbandβ
Beautiful ladies, diverse opinions πππ, whatβs your take? Drop your comments π, like and share π.
The concept is unique. And the participants were open-minded
Thank you so much darling
This is deep still donβt no what to say cus arguing with ur father in law is a lack of discipline n its disrespectful becus he is and elderly man, but d decision is herβs actually cus she can decide to obey or not too obey any of d men, but I would suggest she just walk away without choosing sides.
Nice angle βΊ. Thanks Ralph
I will just follow my heart
Lol, good good
If I happens to be the lady in question, application of wisdom is neededβ¦. Because a husband that could engage himself in such argueent with my father will never even care to respect my opinion not in any circumstance.
And remember a Yoruba adage that says βOko le koni, obi nii kunii ku, tori obi koni le omo buruku fun ekun pajeβ
And my husband should also remember the law of Karmas!
So for this reason, Iβll respect my fatherβs opinion and still not disrespect my husband, I think you understand?
Yes! π π π
Lack of disrespect is for my husband to be arguing with my dad. I will control my man since he loves me, so he can allow me to abide my dadβs rule
Hmm, nice π
I will pretended I didnβt hear any of them, and I will just go somewhere else, since I donβt want to disrespect my father and likewise my husband
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Firstly, how did that lady marry that man? Bcoz ur father must at least knw the kind of person you are getting married to.
Secondly, itβs just unreasonable for a man to argue with his father-in-law
If I were to be a lady Iβd just faint for the two of them π
π π drama king
I would guess both of them smoke Osoogbo weed. I will advice, advise the sensible lady to put on Earphones listening to Lucky Dube and cat walk from the spot immediately. Radarada
π π you don vex